Life has a way of teaching us lessons. Sometimes we learn early in life how to navigate the storms and enjoy the pleasures of life, and sometimes those lessons come through hard and very tough experiences. We love to think our parents and caregivers gave us all we needed to have the best life possible, but unfortunately, for many, this is not the case.
Have you ever struggled through issues and feel like no matter what you do, you just cannot seem to get past the problem, or that the problem keeps raising its dreary head? Whether in your personal life or career we all have those mind blocks that we learned as children, unknowingly. This was my life! I had a great father who taught me many wonderful lessons but for some reason my path led me to learning about life on my own through my own experience, which, believe me, was often tragic and often exhilarating. I believe it was so, simply for me to become who I am today. Who am I today?
I am Victoria, and I am a Life Coach!
I believe every experience I have had has transformed me into the person I am today. The thing is I always was this person who understood the world and people very differently. But the way my mind worked as a child was not acceptable back then (me now being 47 years old) and so I moulded and changed to ensure that I didn’t get left behind. This led to many poor choices and heartaches and dare I say some very powerful career achievements. It was never enough, the achievements…never enough! At the end of it all, I was to learn to come back to myself, to find my authenticity again and to ensure that I NEVER trade it for anything.
Great leaders all have a few things in common, besides having some very clear character traits like tenacity, vision, sheer grit, the ability to fail and start over again and again and again. What they do have in common in addition is a mentor, someone they can turn to in order to keep them on their authentic path. Why should it be any different for you? Just because you are not the next highflyer of the decade doesn’t mean you cannot become your very best self and live a life of absolute joy and growth.
Granted not everyone wants that life…but the programmes we run are not for everyone. Life Coaching with me or with my partner, Shaka, requires you to be certain that you do not want to settle for an ordinary existence. Extra-ordinary requires extra-ordinary effort. It requires an unpacking of your ego and stripping away all the debris that we often collect to keep ourselves feeling safe, accepted and protected. We rewire your mind and change your thinking process. We dig deep into your belief systems and reconstruct them so that they are based on truth and not on what you learned from your environment. When I speak of truth I mean the truth of you!
Do you dare to change? Do you dare to find yourself underneath the heaps of collected perceptions gathered throughout your life?
If you have a goal and you find that you have blocks or just that something is keeping you from achieving your highest ideals, and perhaps you also find yourself blaming your circumstances? Perhaps you find yourself repeatedly backing down? Perhaps you find yourself repeatedly re-evaluating what it is you’re supposed to be doing anyway? Or maybe you know you need a Life Coach but you are debating whether it’s worth it?
I challenge you to book a free 30 minute session.
Transform your mind, take back your power and harness the very gifts you have been given. Everything you need is inside of you but unless you have been taught how to use it, you will keep going in circles, maybe even live a fairly successful career but you will always know that you’re missing something. We are not psychologists. We are Life Coaches and Neuro-Linguistic Programmers who are equipped to help you undo psychological damage and require yourself to become the powerhouse you were born to be.
Email me at victoria@milleniapublishing.co.za
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